How to break through to the life you want! -Motivational Thoughts
Aristotle, an ancient Greek philosopher would hold up an acorn and say, “it is an oak tree.” James Allen about 1903, in his book “As a Man Thinketh” said, “The oak sleeps in the acorn.” Both of them were wrong, the ability to create the oak tree is in the acorn.
The acorn has to be planted in good ground that enables the acorn to sprout and grow into an oak tree. Only then can the acorn’s ability to become an oak tree be realized.
Creating the life we want is the same way.
We all have the ability within us to create the life we want.
We all can have a life that makes us jump out of bed in the morning full of anticipation, full of energy and joy over what the day is going to bring us.
Like the acorn, which when it is planted into good ground, sprouts and becomes an oak tree. When we change our subconscious beliefs, into beliefs that support the life we want, our subconscious mind is now the good ground. Our ability to create the life we want springs forth into action.
When the ability within us springs forth, creating the life we want. We regain the joy, the happiness we had as small children. We spring out of bed in the morning full of anticipation and energy at what our day is bringing us. Our lives are filled with abundance.
The reason our life, is not the life we want:
What we think we believe is different from what we really believe. Our real beliefs are what we believe subconsciously. When we look at the life we have now, we are looking at the beliefs our subconscious mind used, to create the life we have. In other words, our life is a reflection of our real beliefs.
The life we have now, is in alignment with our subconscious beliefs.
To create the life we want, we have to change our subconscious beliefs, into beliefs that are in alignment with the life we want.
Because what we believe, is what we get.
Our beliefs created the life we have.
Because of the subconscious beliefs, we have now:
You look at your future and don’t see anything different, from what you have now. All you see is more of the same old worries, the same old problems.
You wake up in the morning and struggle to get out of bed. You are not looking forward to the day with anticipation.
We feel like we are stuck in limbo, with no way out. We don’t see a future. Just more of the same like have now.
We want a better life than that.
We take self-improvement programs to change our life. They claim their program is the missing key. This is the only program you’ll ever need. This program will create the life you want.
We buy the program. After taking the program, we see some small improvement. But we don’t see the changes in our life, we were promised.
What made me angry about the self-improvement programs was I would read the advertisement claiming this is the key. This is the only program you will ever need. I would purchase and go through the program.
Then six months to a year later, I would get a new advertisement, for a new program, from the same guru, making the same claims. This is the key. This is the only program you will ever need. Despite being angry, I would purchase the program.
The only reason I could think of why I purchased the program was, going through self-improvement programs had become a way of life. Most of the offers from Nightingale-Conant I was receiving were for programs I had already purchased.
When we were children, we were full of life and wonder. But for so many of us, the child we once were is killed by the adult world of lost dreams and stagnate routine ruts.
We want a life of abundance, a future that fills us with joy and anticipation. We have dreams. We want to wake up in the morning and jump out of bed full of energy, bubbling over with happiness at what the day is going to bring us.
We want a future that fills us with the thrill of anticipation.
How can we break through to the life we want?
I was organizing my self-improvement programs. When I had most of my programs together in one place, I suddenly realized, I had one heck of a lot of programs.
It was a shock. As I stared at the stacks of self-improvement programs, I realized I was a self-improvement junkie. As I stared at the stacks, I remembered several years ago, I was going through the Nightingale-Conant catalog. (Nightingale-Conant is one of the top self-improvement companies in the world).
I had bought almost every single program in the catalog. I don’t know how many tens of thousands of dollars I have spent on self-improvement programs.
One thing I really believe is the self-improvement companies somehow know exactly when I am going to finish the program I am working on. The advertisement for the next one comes and I buy it. The new program always comes two or three days
before I finish the program, I am working on. It feels like that happens every single time.
The result is, as soon as I finished the program I was working on, I started working on the new program.
I received some help by going through the program I just finished, but I never got the promised changes in my life.
I went back up the basement stairs into my office and sat down.
I sat my office thinking.
I had spent a lot of years of my life, and tens of thousands of dollars on self-improvement programs.
I had never really achieved the success I thought I would. I would do good up to a point and then just plateau, stagnate. I never had the life I dreamed of. I never had the financial security, the financial independence, I thought I would have. I felt like I was drifting along, a piece of flotsam on the River of life, going wherever it took me.
Did I want to continue taking self-improvement programs, if I wasn’t going to receive what they promised?
I needed time to think about it. I decided to hold off buying any more self-improvement programs.
I soon realized, either you are actively working to improve your life, or your life is getting worse. Change is always happening, for better or worse, in our lives. We never experience a period in our lives where nothing is changing.
Because I wasn’t actively trying to improve my life, nothing in my life was improving. I felt like I was stuck in limbo, without any idea of how to get out of it. I didn’t know how to get a sense of anticipation. I wasn’t looking forward to things with anticipation. I seemed to be just stuck in limbo, not getting much done, just stuck, stagnant and dead.
I realized that one day, one week, one month, one year, was going to be the same as the next. Just existing from day-to-day. Not having a life, I just existed.
If I didn’t make the effort to create the life I wanted, six months, a year, two years from now, life would be worse. I did not want to own up to that realization. I wanted to push it away.
I would never have the life I wanted.
That unpleasant realization, forced me to make a decision.
I made the commitment to have a life where I jumped out of bed in the morning filled with joy. Filled with the anticipation of what the day was going to bring. A life overflowing with abundance, to live the life I wanted.
I made the commitment. I would do whatever it took, to create the life I wanted.
I started searching for a comprehensive program that would release the ability to create the life I wanted.
I finally found the program I thought was the one. The program that would help me breakthrough, to the life I wanted.
I bought every extra the program offered.
I was going to have the life I wanted.
I started going through the program. I was making good progress, I was really learning.
I was partway through the program, when the goal setting part of the program came up. I put the goal-setting DVD in my computer. I sat back in my chair as it came up.
When the program came up, I started working on creating goals.
Suddenly, I just sit there staring at the screen. I recognized the program he was using.
After staring at the screen for a while, I got up from my chair, went into the kitchen and flipped on the basement light. I went down into the basement and started going through the stacks of self-improvement programs. I soon found it.
Mind mapping by Michael Gelb on cassette tapes.
I had studied the program, back in the 90s. I went back upstairs and into my office. I sat in my chair looking at the program in my hands and at my computer screen.
I realized the difference between me and the person I paid the big bucks to, was when he got the program, he made it a part of his life. When he finished the program, mind mapping, instead of dropping it and studying the new program, he kept working with the program until it became a part of his life.
We don’t recognize how small the difference is between success and failure.
In the hundred-yard dash at the 1976 Olympic Games, the difference between an Olympic gold medal and last place was only 1/10 of a second.
1/10 of a second separated a person, who will always be remembered as an Olympic gold medalist, from the person who finished last. A person nobody will remember.
Both in the Olympics, and in real life, what separates the person who will always be remembered as a gold medalist, from the person nobody remembers, is usually very small.
The really successful person, stays with a program until it becomes a part of their life.
The average person drops the program before it becomes a part of their lives.
One person comes extremely close to starting a project. The wealthy person starts the project.
One person comes extremely close to completing a project. The wealthy person completes the project.
One person barely flunks the exam, another person barely passes the same exam.
The difference in their scores may be slight, but that small difference makes all the difference in the world.
An area where there is only a slight difference between two people, but a tremendous difference in what they make, is the movies.
When they make a movie, they have stand-in’s for the star actors.
The stand-in’s do the hard grueling work, while the stars do the rest.
The stand-in’s and the star actors will resemble each other very closely. The star actors may be only slightly more talented than their stand-in’s. However, there is one tremendous difference between the star actor and the understudy.
The amount of money each makes.
The star actor makes many times the salary of the stand-in.
There may be only a slight difference between the successful person and the average person. But boy can it be tough to make that break through, that creates the life we want.
We want to wake up in the morning, we want to jump out of bed full of energy, bubbling over with happiness at what the day is going to bring us. We want a life filled with abundance. A future filled with joy and anticipation.
How to create the life we want?
The super expensive program I studied, gave me the answer. But how it gave me the answer was nothing I expected.
What give me the answer, were the implications, from realizing he was using mind mapping by Michael Gelb.
I realized that when I started on a program that had just came, I had quit working with the old program. The person I paid the big bucks to kept working with mind mapping, until it become a part of his life.
The difference between dropping the old program and making it a part of our life, is the difference between the successful person and the average person.
When we stay with something until it becomes a part of our life, we have changed our beliefs. Because we changed our beliefs, our life changed. Our life is reflecting our new beliefs.
As I thought about the difference between success and failure, I realized most self-improvement programs put the cart before the horse. We change our schedules, we change how we do things before we change our subconscious mind. The result is, when we start doing things differently, we meet resistance.
Is there a way to get around that resistance? If we can somehow bypass that resistance, creating the life we want would be easy. Making the break through that creates the life we want, would be easy.
How can we change our subconscious mind, so it creates the life we want, while bypassing the resistance?
When we change oursubconscious beliefs to match what we want.
The transformation has taken place.
Your subconscious mind has created thelife you want.
Because what we believe, is what we get.
I had finally discovered how to bypass the resistance. The way we can easily change our subconscious beliefs, into beliefs that create the life we want.
How to easily break through the barrier and create the life we want.
I realized that Emile Coue had the answer to the question, how do we change our beliefs to match what we want? How we can bypass the resistance to change.
Emile Coue came to this country in the early 1900’s, about 100 years ago.
He healed thousands of people. He created the first affirmation, every day in every way I am getting better and better. You took a string and tied 20 knots in it. Every morning and night, you took that string and as you fed a knot through your fingers, you repeated the affirmation.
That simple process healed thousands of people.
I read his book, The Power of Auto-Suggestion. I learned from that ancient book that the real secret to changing your life, is changing your subconscious mind to match what you want.
He didn’t ask them to change their habits, the way they did things, nothing like that. They simply repeated the affirmation until their subconscious mind believed it.
When their subconscious mind believed it, they were healed.
When they changed their subconscious mind, the way they perceived and did things changed. The change they wanted in their life, was reality.
The real power is in the ease of using an affirmation, until our subconscious mind believes it.
When you repeat the affirmation until your subconscious mind believes it, you have changed your life.
Several years earlier, I was under quite a bit of stress. I bought a deep relaxation program. I put the CD in my boom box by my recliner, put my headphones on and pushed play.
I hadn’t been sleeping very well and when the CD finished playing, I felt better. I felt more relaxed and refreshed.
There was a clipboard with a sheet of paper on it by my boom box. Why I did it, Idon’t know. I put a mark on that piece of paper every time I used the CD.
I played the CD every week at least three times, and usually five times. At the end of one month, I couldn’t tell any change at all, nothing. Six weeks went by and still nothing. Absolutely totally nothing.
Finally, during the seventh week, deep diaphragm breathing.
I couldn’t remember the last time I had deep diaphragm breathing. My blood pressure dropped 10%.
The difference between success and failure was, I didn’t listen to the CD for several weeks and quit. I kept listening to the CD until I got the results I wanted.
The thousands of people, Emile Coue’s simple method healed, were healed because they kept repeating the affirmation, until they got the results they wanted.
They were healed.
There is a very good reason, why the self-improvement programs don’t give us the promised results. They are not properly designed. When we finish going through the program, the program does not provide a way to continue with the program.
We have gone through the program, that’s it. There’s no follow up. They don’t have a plan that shows how to continue, once we finish studying it. We are on our own.
Since we didn’t get the promised results, we buy another program that makes similar promises. They have turned us into a cash cow. They keep turning out programs, because they know there are plenty of cash cows, just waiting to send them cash.
We need a program that delivers what we are promised.
Creating the life, we want.
Right now, our subconscious mind is programed to give us what we don’t want.
We are not in control of our life. We are just drifting along like something floating on the River of life. We don’t have a life filled with abundance. Our life isn’t filled with joyful anticipation. Our lives are dull, boring and stagnate.
Instead of the life, we don’t want:
We are going to start creating a life where we spring out of bed in the morning full of energy, bubbling over with joy. Filled with the anticipation of what day is bringing us. Soaked through to our core with abundance.
We are going to use the simple method, Mr. Emile Coue used, to heal thousands of people. The method not only works great, we have the capability to improve how it is implemented.
We have to do several things.
Within the acorn, is the potential to become a mighty oak tree. When the acorn is planted into good ground, it sprouts and grows into an oak tree.
Likewise, we have the potential within us to create the life we want. We have to create the condition within our subconscious mind that is like the good ground for the acorn. When we do that, the ability within us springs forth creating the life we want.
Some things we can put on autopilot. We don’t have to do anything, once we set them up to be done automatically.
I wanted to change my life. I set up an affirmation, stating the changes I wanted had already happened. I copied that affirmation to a cd as many times as I could get on the cd.
I was doing a lot of driving. I put the CD into the player in my car. I never turned the CD player off. Anytime I was in my vehicle, the CD was playing.
By putting hearing the repetition of the affirmations on automatic, we do not have to remember to listen to them. It is all automatic. That makes it easy to keep listening, until the affirmations change our subconscious mind.
Some things require creating a habit.
Several years ago, I got home and started to unlock and open my front door. I noticed the lock was loused up. I touched my front door and it swung open. I stood there bolt upright in shock. Hadn’t I locked my front door.
I walked inside and quickly saw things were missing. I had been robbed. The lock on the front door had held, but the lock on the back door didn’t. The thief had come through the back door and left through the front door.
I felt like I had been really violated.
I had an alarm system installed.
The following Friday afternoon, I drove to Salina Kansas, a 90-mile trip. At about mile 80, I suddenly realized, I didn’t set the alarm. I felt like turning back, but that would mean a 160 mile round trip. I decided against it.
All weekend, until I got back home Sunday afternoon, not setting the alarm bothered me. That deep feeling of being violated was responsible. Just writing this brings back the feeling of being violated.
Everything turned out okay, but I resolved to do something about it.
I had taken a course by Sir John Templeton, founder of the Templeton Growth Fund. I remember something he said, I have never forgotten.
“A habit is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master.”
When I remembered that truism, I started working to make setting the alarm system a habit.
To create the habit of setting the alarm, I made the effort to set the alarm every time I walked out my front door. Even if I was just taking the trash out and putting it on the curb, I set the alarm.
Setting the alarm soon became a habit.
Several times, I went somewhere and suddenly thought, I didn’t set the alarm. But when I got home, I would find the alarm was set.
The habit of setting the alarm had become a wonderful servant.
Some things we can do to create the life we want:
We can make a CD or a file of the affirmations, to listen to while we are working on the computer.
We can load the affirmations into our MP3 players.
Creating the habit of listening to the affirmations in our MP3 players and while working on the computer adds extra power. The affirmations we are listening to every time we are in our vehicles adds even more to that power.
We have put Mr. Emile Coue’s method in high gear.
The way it works.
We are born into this world. For the first several years of our lives, we have a tremendous learning curve. We learn a lot about our surroundings and quite a bit of language.
The reason is, we are full of wonder and are highly motivated to learn.
When we are using Mr. Coue’s method, a month or more may pass by and nothing. Then suddenly we have some small victories that impact our lives.
We realize those little victories, was the acorn sprouting. Those little victories, was the ability within springing forth.
The creation of the life we want has started.
Talk about reviving your motivation. Those little successes energize you. That leads to more successes, more victories. Those victories push your motivation to new heights. That creates greater breakthroughs, greater successes.
The acorn is growing into a mighty oak tree. The ability within is creating the life you wanted.
That feeling of being full of wonder and high motivation you had as a small child, is coming alive. You’re refilled with energy.
That drives your motivation and accomplishments to even higher levels.
You start waking up in the morning and jumping out of bed. Thrilled at what the day is bringing you. Filled with joy and anticipation. Life is great.
I don’t have the words to describe how you are going to be over flowing with feelings you cannot imagine, totally soaked to your core with joy.
You smashed through the barrier. You created the life you want.
The secret to creating the life you want was Mr. Coue’s simple method of repeating the affirmation until your subconscious mind believed it. Mr. Coue’s method healed thousands of people. His method created the life you want.
By setting the listening of an affirmation, specific to the life you wanted, on autopilot. By forming the habit of listening to that
affirmation, your subconscious mind became aligned with the life you wanted.
Your subconscious mind created the life you want.
Because what we believe, is what we get.
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The program contains:
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PS: When it was decision time, I knew I either had to make the effort to realize my dream of having the life I wanted, or stay where I was.
If I stayed where I was, life was not going to get better. If anything, life would get worse. The passing of time would finish killing off my dreams, my hopes.
I didn’t want to keep looking at my future and seeing unending what I have now. Just more of the same old, same old. The same old worries, the same old problems, the constant financial pressure. No hope.
Keep going through life without any hope, no desires for a better life, no dreams.
I had to either keep the life I have now, or make the decision to do whatever it took, to create the life I wanted.
That is the choice we have. We either realize our dreams, or have a terrible feeling in our gut as we watch our hopes, our dreams die.
When faced with a bleak future, I made the decision that I wanted to live the life I wanted. I didn’t want any part of a bleak hopeless future.
I truly hope that everyone makes a choice to have their desires, their hopes, their dreams realized. I hope your dreams create the life you want.
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